"My husband admits he's unhappy. When I told him that I noticed that he just didn't seem content, he told me I was absolutely right. But he didn't skip a beat to reassure me that I was not the cause of his unhappiness. He kept saying: 'it is not you. I don't want for you to think that it's you. It has nothing to do with you. It's just something I have to work out for myself. I have to learn to live my life in a way that allows me to lesson my stress and increase my joy. I didn't realize that being an adult would have a way of draining the happiness right out of you.' In a sense, I understand what he's saying. Some aspects of being a responsible adult are a drag. But that doesn't stop me from being happy. I love being married and part of a family. My friends and family make me happy. I don't need for everything to be perfect. But my husband's unease is start to affect everything. It's starting to make me unhappy also. I'm not sure what I can do to make him happy."
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