"My husband is the one who initiated the separation. But I didn't really fight it. Because it was clear that we had to do something. We had gotten to the point where we could just not get along. And there didn't seem to be any feelings left between us. It just seemed that everything was deteriorating. We didn't speak at all for weeks after he moved out. Lately we have been talking on the phone. And as that started, my feelings began to change. I have started to entertain the idea that I would like to save my marriage. I miss my husband. I realize that we are being reactive and not proactive. I feel like we should fight to stay together rather than just idly retreating like we are. But I am not sure if I should share my thoughts with my husband. As I said, we talk. But he hasn't said much to allow me to gage how he is feeling. So I'm afraid that if I tell him what I'm feeling, he might reject me or stop calling. Should I tell him that I want to save my marriage?"
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