When a woman goes out with a guy for the first time there are
certain "unspoken" rules relating to what she should refrain from doing
if she wants there to be a second date with this particular guy. But
it's unfortunate how simple these points are... yet many women fail to
recognize their importance. Then, after being dropped off, they sit
anxiously by the phone, wondering why it isn't ringing and where they
went wrong.
Here are four important tips to show you how that could happen...
1. Being late. You'll blow that all important first impression if you are late. Your new guy might smile and shrug it off as being no big deal... but it really is. This is a first date so you should be excited about the unknown and what you will find out about this person. You should be motivated (notice we didn't say desperate), to meet him and discover if you like him or not. If you can't even show him enough respect to show up when you are supposed to, then you aren't giving him a very good impression of you.
2. Not enough effort. A first date is a time to impress. If it ends up not working out, at least it was because the chemistry wasn't there. But if you don't put your full effort into making yourself presentable, then you are simply telling him you have already decided he just isn't worth the effort before you have even met him! How impressed do you think he'll be about you when you display this type of attitude?
3. Bad attitude. Speaking of attitudes, having a bad one is a sure sign of impending disaster. If you have had a particularly bad day at work, possibly aren't feeling well, or have just had an eruptive argument with your ex and you are still fuming over it, then maybe you should re-schedule the date. You might try to fake your feelings by flashing a big smile, but your date will quickly learn you aren't really into being there like you should be. The sad part is he probably won't ever find out the true reason behind your bad attitude and will just chalk it up to a bad experience.
4. Drinking too much. It's okay to have a glass of wine with dinner but it's totally something else when you start downing shot after shot of alcohol. Even if you really enjoy drinking you should refrain from the hard stuff on the first date, or maybe he'll feel obligated to slip you the telephone number for the nearest AA chapter as he runs for the door.
Here are four important tips to show you how that could happen...
1. Being late. You'll blow that all important first impression if you are late. Your new guy might smile and shrug it off as being no big deal... but it really is. This is a first date so you should be excited about the unknown and what you will find out about this person. You should be motivated (notice we didn't say desperate), to meet him and discover if you like him or not. If you can't even show him enough respect to show up when you are supposed to, then you aren't giving him a very good impression of you.
2. Not enough effort. A first date is a time to impress. If it ends up not working out, at least it was because the chemistry wasn't there. But if you don't put your full effort into making yourself presentable, then you are simply telling him you have already decided he just isn't worth the effort before you have even met him! How impressed do you think he'll be about you when you display this type of attitude?
3. Bad attitude. Speaking of attitudes, having a bad one is a sure sign of impending disaster. If you have had a particularly bad day at work, possibly aren't feeling well, or have just had an eruptive argument with your ex and you are still fuming over it, then maybe you should re-schedule the date. You might try to fake your feelings by flashing a big smile, but your date will quickly learn you aren't really into being there like you should be. The sad part is he probably won't ever find out the true reason behind your bad attitude and will just chalk it up to a bad experience.
4. Drinking too much. It's okay to have a glass of wine with dinner but it's totally something else when you start downing shot after shot of alcohol. Even if you really enjoy drinking you should refrain from the hard stuff on the first date, or maybe he'll feel obligated to slip you the telephone number for the nearest AA chapter as he runs for the door.
Have you been late for a first date, or even felt grumpy due to
an argument with your ex? Ask yourself what makes you this way? What
destructive emotions are at the heart of this behavior?
For nearly 25 years Beverleigh Piepers has searched for and found the principles to help you get to the root causes of your crisis.
The solution is not in the endless volumes of information you find across the internet, or the advice your friends give... it's in yourself; the thoughts that make you who you are.
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For nearly 25 years Beverleigh Piepers has searched for and found the principles to help you get to the root causes of your crisis.
The solution is not in the endless volumes of information you find across the internet, or the advice your friends give... it's in yourself; the thoughts that make you who you are.
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