Relationship Advice - Signs of Infidelity That Shouldn't Be Missed!

Infidelity is one of the most harmful problems that can come up in a marriage and often leads to divorce. It usually comes about as a result of several components being missing in the partnership... but often it's not due to a lack of sex. It's more about the lack of intimacy between the couple. Whatever the reason, one or both partners decide to stray and seek comfort from an outside person.

There is no question that turning away from your partner to another person outside of the relationship, is no way to go about fixing the problems and trying to save the marriage. As someone involved in a relationship, you owe it to yourself to understand the possible signs your partner is cheating on you.

Here are a few significant signals to be aware of:

• if your spouse or significant other suddenly becomes emotionally distant, you may need to pay close attention. In other words, if your partner starts looking like they are single without any concern for your welfare or needs, that can be a telltale sign of infidelity.


• if your partner seems to be more angry or critical of you than usual, that can also signal infidelity problems. Many people will start to become mean to their partner as a way of distancing themselves so they don't feel the guilt from their infidelity. Then, they can use those arguments as an excuse for why they are breaking off the relationship to be with another person.


• most people know if your spouse starts to work long hours, or make more business travel trips than normal, this can be a huge signal they are cheating on you. Staying at work for longer than usual hours... something they haven't done in the past, is almost always a sure sign "something" is going on. If they start to travel out-of-town and stay for extended periods, that gives them ample opportunity to cheat on you without having a chance of being caught.


• if your partner suddenly starts to take an interest in their appearance when they haven't in the past, that too might be a sign of cheating. However, you have to look at everything in context. If they have recently been more interested in trying to get healthy or have received medical news that told them they needed to get in shape, that doesn't mean they are cheating.

The signs of infidelity can be very elusive and confusing. Don't jump to any conclusions without giving your partner the benefit of the doubt. As with anything, take their past history into account. If they've cheated before, it is said they will likely cheat again.

Are you giving too much emotional energy to your job or children instead of to your marriage. If so this can cause your bond with your partner to dissolve. Making your marriage work is the responsibility of both partners.

For nearly 25 years Beverleigh Piepers has searched for and found the principles to help you get to the root causes of your crisis.

The solution is not in the endless volumes of information you find across the internet, or the advice your friends give... it's in yourself; the thoughts that make you who you are.

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